hye .... let's we discuss about precautions mixed marriage..
i just want to give point and than we discuss together ok..??? we can share opinion, explain in detail about my point..
husband and wife cannot flee from the fighting could even be said to recognize the pair fight better but quarrels can not be taken lightly. five technique the precaution is:
1) honest
2) love
3) tolerance
4) don;t penalize
5) peaceful
please discuss my friends..hihi
Saturday, January 23, 2010
precautions about mixed marriage
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hye akma..
akma, i confuse...
you say have six technique the precaution..but i see have five only...or i only not see....
where is one technique the precaution and what is this?hehehehe
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
sory yana..i wrong.. just five technique..so thanks because comment my post.....
FROM: NURUL AKMA BINTI KHAMIS
ohhh...really?just five only..
i mind you miss 1 point,,hehehe
your are welcome..
it's ok akma...
because we one group, so we must cooperate together k..
finally..our discussion will be more easier...
now...i not confuse again...hehhe
thank you too akma...
alright, so now we discus one by one..
first point about HONEST..
for me, honest more important to husband and wife.husband must be honest to wife and wife must be honest to husband...
example,anything we do must don't have any secret between husbund and wife,not another person in wife or husband hurt.you all can see through attitude , talk , and more...
anything you do, you must be honest.not in marriage only but in your work, friendship, family and so on...
hmmmm...it's just my opinion about HONEST...
How about you all??
we discuss about honest first ok..
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
hmmmm,...roya..liza...
what your opinion about HONEST?
honest in relationship will bring happiness alright...
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
hai yana ..thanks give the feedback .. thank you .. Where roya and liza ? please respond to comments ...
trust is very important in the relationship .. without honesty will not be safe relationship ... husband and wife need not be secret because honesty will be more closer relationship .. fear not honest will cleave the relationship between husband and wife ..
akma agree with your opinion yana ... after we finish this honest we disccus bout onether point ok.. hope roya and liza joint us...
FROM : NURUL AKMA BINTI KHAMIS
yes, i hope too akma...
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
asalamualaikum..sory this week i am very busy..in my opinion abaut honest is for me honest very important for husband and wife because they will live together forever..when withaut honest maybe the marriage will of..so honest very very important..i think in marriage love also important but should have blessing from family.
from :noriza binti ishak
i forget creat my name in above..
wasalam iza...
it's ok....now you respond and join in our discussion alright....
so...go on..
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
hai akma n norliyana...
honest..for me honest is characterize by integrity or fairness and straight...forwardness in conduct,thought,speech...let's be honest..for example the only reason she married him was for his money..this reason very bad and will destroy relationship bettwen husband and wife..what your opinion..
FROM:NORIZA BINTI ISHAK
iza...my spelling name...
my name Norilyana, not Norliyana...
hmmmm, money factor to reason for married very bad...she or he not honest,,,,,,...this situation can divorce....
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
Ohhhh ya....
where is Roya????
please join in our discussion....
now, we discus about HONEST...
we have four point again right..
give your respon ok.
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
every body...
you all still stay with honest or next point???
akma,roya,liza....what do you think?
this point or next point?
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
hye every one...i'm here.. where roya????
let's we discuus about love.. for me love is very important thing to every one.. with love, we can make happy.. but sometime have love after married..
for me, in relationship have must love.. without love relationship will be flat..although there say love is blind, but it is very important.. so please love someone..
lastly, love someone that we love wholeheartedly
from : NURUL AKMA BINTI KHAMIS
thank akma...your opinion about love.....LOVE is very sweet...
akma,....for me..
Possessiveness is not love...
Jealousy is not love...
Lust is not love...
Fear is not love...
Keeping people all to yourself is not love...
Expecting something from someone is not love....
but...To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.....
How many parents can say that about their kids?
How many people can say that about their “lover”?
Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement.
It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you.
It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone.
It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with.
Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
so....what do you think roya and iza about LOVE????
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
to all my friend ... sorry I did not have a long comment this blog ... busy ... but now I here ..
precautions in mixed marriage.
honest, love, tolerance, do not penalize, and peace ...
honesty is one of the most important thing. impartiality will help husband and wife trust each other. and will maintain a household. family socialization important for children ...=)
love is one thing that abstract ... love should be maintained until old age. so that married couples do not only love the physical. but the whole love and accept good and bad pair ....=)
tolerance .. most mixed less tolerance problems arise because the couple is often compromise. they mature. although they divorced, but they will remain friends ....=)
attitude will judge accordingly need not practiced in the marriage. discuss measures are best ...=)
if honest, love, tolerance, do not penalize, no. domestic peace will be sustained until the end of life.
FROM; ROOYAHAZMA BINTI YAKUB ...
honestly ... the symbol of loyalty.
we can see. problem is not a problem to be honest the pair. not only men but also women. why these problems occur because .... whether less affection, less attention, busy with work. but if love is still strong feelings. cheating problem will not arise.
FROM: ROOYAHAZMA BINTI YAKUB
That right roya..
honestly very important in couple..
not honestly in marriage can causes to divorce...
Honestly will be harmonest in family, the live very fun, enjoy n other else..
and then love can be wife or husband feel caring, loving...
you can give love to your wife or husband everyday with your touch,conversation, deed for do somthing or surprise and any more...
non love..will be occured cruelty..and then wife or husband will be victim and lastly can be die or police case...
so...honest and love are very important for mixed marriage...
FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA
HELLO...love very very important to all in life expecly to your family and youf husband..now we can see always happend divocre bettwen husband and wife..all of this my be couple always lie not honest..i hope husband n wife should honest..futhermore we can have good family n good country.i will explain abaut honest..Think honestly. This may sound silly, but if you don't think honestly, you won't BE honest. Prejudices and preconceived ideas can make it difficult to distinguish what the truth really is. Don't take things at face value. When you read, see, or hear something, don't make assumptions. Offer the benefit of the doubt, and be skeptical if necessary. When you make a commitment to communicating and understanding the truth, it can be humbling to realize that most of what we think we know is actually just based on assumptions rather than facts.
FROM:NORIZA BINTI ISHAK
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