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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Factor and Problems about Mixed Marriage

Hello every one...
Today i meet the one article about mixed marriage..
so,we can discus about this article..


Winda Handayani is an Indonesian Muslim married to Maarten Hekman, a Dutch (nominally, it seems) Christian. They met over the internet and then in 2001 Hekman came to Indonesia to meet Winda, a Javanese.

Later they decided to get married but the problem of differing religions came up. Winda's family insisted that the marriage be done according to Islam but Hekman was unwilling to convert and Winda did not believe it right that he should convert just in order to get married. Hekman also accepted that Winda did not wish to convert to Christianity. To get around the problem they underwent a civil, state, marriage only.

Although they have not yet had children the question of what religious instruction any offspring should receive is something that they have discussed, and disagreed about. Winda wants their children taught Islam, while Hekman believes, in true Dutch secular fashion, that the children should not be raised according to any particular religion, and that later they should be free to choose for themselves.

12 comments:

butterfly said...

Roya,akma n liza.....
what do you think about this article?
the factor in this article is internet factor.Are you agree?


FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA

butterfly said...

hye yana..i had finish about your article.. i agree with u..actually the problems is bout diffrent religont like my article before this right??

diffrents religions so difficult if want to get marriage.. thinks first before want to get marriage ok..

roya and iza where are you?? please joint us ... hello..hello..hello..:)

FROM: NURUL AKMA BINTI KHAMIS

butterfly said...

owh..reall?..but just different about factor..

internet factor.Internet very important to all person in era globalisasi..many information we can explore..and then internet can chat with any person at anytime, anywhere and so on..

so...how about you Roya and Liza?


FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA

Unknown said...

ok, thanks girls. Finally, I managed to get into your blog. Beautiful blog, with beautiful colours. Good progress! Keep up the good work. continue discussing the articles.
Thanks,
Pn Fuzirah

butterfly said...

madam thanks for visiting our blog. we will continue our discussion and we strive to develop the title (mixed marriage).

FROM:
ROYA, AKMA, YANA AND IZA...(^_^)...

butterfly said...

I have learned about this issue on the subject of religious movements. an interesting discussion yana. things like this happen if not odd in Indonesia. in Indonesia because they can get married even though their different races and religions. and mixed marriage is not a foreign thing for the people of Indonesia.

FROM:ROOYAHAZMA BINTI YAKUB, A123947

butterfly said...

yes...ofcourse roya..
however, it,s still mixed marriage..
it,s my opinion..
but,,,the article not one country and religion..
and then they different culture between Winda and Hekman..

hmmmmm,actually i not sure about indonesia and indonesia not same religion marriage....that mixed marriage or not.....


FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA

butterfly said...

oh..thanks all couses enjoyed this blog..ang thanks for madam...
i agree with miss yana..actually still story bout mixed marriage at Indonesian... because diffrent religion, races... for me not wrong if we want to get marriage with someone (mixed marriage) ..

for me.. marriage with indonesia and indonesia can be a mixed marriage if diffrent nation...

pls comment..

FROM : NURUL AKMA BINTI KHAMIS

butterfly said...

Ohhhhh!!!really???
so..my opinion it's true akma?
hmmm,,,indonesia and indonesia is mixed marriage but other culture and religion.....some with we country..
that right???


FROM:NORILYANA BINTI SUHADA

butterfly said...

in indonesia have more mixed marriage bettwen muslim and cristian..what happpend with this country..without change religion..very difficult to live together..i belive they will devorce soon..the reasons married is just sexs not love,honest..so when maried with diffrent religions so difficult..if want to married..think first..same religion,race,culture so important for marriage..
FROM;NORIZA BINTI ISHAK

butterfly said...
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butterfly said...

to all my friends. us with Indonesia. but we have to remember we are different in terms of the constitution. for example Islam the official religion and we malay is our official language. in Indonesia if I am not mistaken the official religion does not exist. they are allowed to marry a different race. Indonesia and Malaysia sect different ...=)

FROM: ROOYAHAZMA BINTI YAKUB.