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Saturday, January 23, 2010

precautions about mixed marriage

hye .... let's we discuss about precautions mixed marriage..
i just want to give point and than we discuss together ok..??? we can share opinion, explain in detail about my point..

husband and wife cannot flee from the fighting could even be said to recognize the pair fight better but quarrels can not be taken lightly. five technique the precaution is:

1) honest
2) love
3) tolerance
4) don;t penalize
5) peaceful

please discuss my friends..hihi

Friday, January 15, 2010

geography is a problems

assalamualaikum..how are you today??? let's discuss about mixed marriage.. yahooo
today i want to share again about problems.. and my topic focus adverse geography...


Couples who choose to enter into a mixed marriage are not immune from problems anywhere. Although some places, such as large cities in the United States, are generally more accepting, smaller towns and other countries may not be so accepting. Fortunately, tolerance and acceptance is becoming more common as laws change and the percentage of mixed marriages rises every year.Other countries have laws that make life nearly impossible for those who marry someone from another country.

For example, Indonesia only recognizes the rights of citizens. If an Indonesian woman marries someone of another nationality, their children are considered citizens of the other country, even if the family lives in Indonesia. Upon the death of the husband, the woman will have to pay fees to sponsor her children, or they will be deported to their father's country of origin. If the woman were to die in that same scenario, her husband and children would be left homeless, as they would have no rights to any property in her name. They would also be deported without a sponsor.

after u all read this problems what can you tell me??? please share with me ... thankss

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Factor and Problems about Mixed Marriage

Hello every one...
Today i meet the one article about mixed marriage..
so,we can discus about this article..


Winda Handayani is an Indonesian Muslim married to Maarten Hekman, a Dutch (nominally, it seems) Christian. They met over the internet and then in 2001 Hekman came to Indonesia to meet Winda, a Javanese.

Later they decided to get married but the problem of differing religions came up. Winda's family insisted that the marriage be done according to Islam but Hekman was unwilling to convert and Winda did not believe it right that he should convert just in order to get married. Hekman also accepted that Winda did not wish to convert to Christianity. To get around the problem they underwent a civil, state, marriage only.

Although they have not yet had children the question of what religious instruction any offspring should receive is something that they have discussed, and disagreed about. Winda wants their children taught Islam, while Hekman believes, in true Dutch secular fashion, that the children should not be raised according to any particular religion, and that later they should be free to choose for themselves.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

weaknesses of mixed marriage

salam n good everning for all my friend...
i want share about issue weaknesses of mixed marriage...

interesting phenomenon is the increasing number of Eurasians in Malaysia, especially in Kuala Lumpur. Born of mixed marriages between Malaysians and Westerners. Normally, they are communicate in English, but Malaysians usually speaking in ‘Manglish’ like ‘you go to eat first la’. Sometime westerners find it difficult to understand there are alsodifferences in communication between Westernes and Malaysian. For example kissing goodbye is common manners for Westerners but for Malaysians is not suitable.

I show the weakness is more to Manners for the Muslims. this may be common to other nations.

to partners if there are opinions and examples about the weakness of mixed marriage, let share stories and opinions ....=)

Saturday, January 9, 2010

problems about mixed marriage..

assalamualaikum and good morning.. i;m very happy because all of you enjoyed with this blog.. today i would like to tell u bout problems in mixed marriage..

Marriage is a compromise at best. However, when you introduce major differences into a marriage such as race, religion or nationality, there are additional problems you may face. Many couples only think about the love they feel for one another until confronted with some of the problems of mixed marriages


HISTORY

1. Mixed marriages have taken place since the beginning of time. As people explored and traveled, men would fall in love with local women and either stay or take the women back home with them. Marriages of mixed religions, races or cultures have traditionally met with resistance by either party's family or friends, or by society in general.

Interracial marriages were illegal in the United States in some states until 1967. Couples were prosecuted and sentenced to jail for marrying other races, as noted in the infamous court case Loving vs. the State of Virginia. This couple consisted of a white man and a black woman who were forced to leave their Virginia home or go to jail. They left until they won their case in the Supreme Court.

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Friday, January 8, 2010

BENEFITS OF MIXED MARRIAGE

Assalamualaikum..today i have find out about benefits of mixed marriage.
firstly..i happend to believe there are great benefits to marry autside of your culture such as knowing different culturel and customs..their child have
experienece abaut other culture for example about food and anything..
after that mixed marriage also giving their kids the opportunity to
learn more than one language..for example when malay people married with english people.their child can speak two language which are malay and english
and also the whole intercultural family become more open-minded and has a
strong sense of personal identity.i think mixed marriage also have it's own benefits.
what do you think about my oppinion???

Chelsea Clinton's bridegroom Problem of mixed marriages is not a religious matter, but a national one

Hello everyone..
How are you today?i hope you all fine.
Today, i would like about it's title...
So, now we discuss about this article ok..
this article i take from http://www.ynetnews.com
I hope we reading and you all give your opinion about this article.



Chelsea Clinton's bridegroom

Problem of mixed marriages is not a religious matter, but a national one

Aliza Lavi

Published:

01.01.10, 13:05 / Israel Opinion

Chelsea Clinton, the daughter of one of the most prominent families in American politics, has chosen a Jew for a husband. The groom-to-be, Marc Mezvinsky, is the member of a family of businesspeople and politicians. Further proof that Jews can be found in the very center of the American establishment: The former president and the current secretary of state will be the in-laws of a Jewish guy.

With all of our appreciation and very long friendship with Bill and Hillary Clinton, and despite the fact that the latter's image serves as a role model to many women across the world – we could look at the same story from an opposite angle, and we should be concerned by it.

A guy from a Jewish family enters a mixed marriage. There is no sign that Chelsea Clinton plans to convert to Judaism. And perhaps Marc, like many of the Jewish members of his generation, is marrying the woman he loves without asking questions which are seemingly obsolete.

Bill and Hillary Clinton are true friends of Israel and the Jewish people. When Hillary spoke, as first lady, on the Yitzhak Rabin Memorial Day, she began her address with quotes from the weekly Torah portion. Few Israeli politicians do so. By doing this, Hillary demonstrated an intimate closeness to the Jewish people and their heritage. During the battle for the restoration of Holocaust victims' property from banks in Switzerland, it was Hillary who recruited Bill to the effort for the sake of historic justice. But nonetheless, our children cannot marry the Clinton family.

The number of mixed marriages in the Diaspora has increased by 200% in the past 50 years. About 55% of all Jews' marriages are mixed ones. In one-quarter of families, the children of the next generation will no longer be Jewish, and at best will have a loose connection to their Jewish roots. A look at the future shows that within a number of generations, American Jewry will nearly disappear, excluding its religious and haredi part.


Wednesday, January 6, 2010

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