Why guys Indian like muslim girls..maybe this is because their speciality.
sure,interreligious marriages have problem of -non aceeptance are the same for intra.Mix marriages betwen Indian Tamils,sri Lankan Tamils,Telegus,Malayalis and North Indians.Ihe more arrogant party refuses to accept the incoming spouse.The most common mixed marriages have are between Hindu boys and malay girls one Hindu boy engaged to a malay muslim girl.Confided me find the Malay girls petite,charming,feminine and approachable,unlike indian girls.Malays pay a lot of attention to personal appearance.Chinese and indian christian girls too and though everyone thing Hindu girls are chaste.Coming from an estate and having lived in the university kampus,I know that is a me boys dont mind to much abaut religion.We just want a girl that we like.Besides,the malays with their underlying Hindu like culture are the next best to Hindus.Compered to malays and thais,our Hindu girls seem unapproachable ,without a smile on their faces.If not to the law that you have to convert to Islam,most Hindu boys would have married malays.We also know that malay girls profer indian boys.They find them more responsible and less likely to take a second wife.Why should we complaine abaut marying outside the hindu fold when even if chinese girls are willing embrace Hinduism still we do not accept them.

Problem on mixed marriage identity rectified

Problem on mixed marriage identity rectified

Kota Kinabalu: The National Registration Department (NRD) in Sabah has rectified the problem faced by inter-marriage couples when registering their children for birth certificates.

There are ethnicity codes like Sino-Native provided in the registration form for a birth certificate, the Director Haji Abdul Jaffear Henry told Sepanggar MP Datuk Eric Majimbun who paid him a visit recently.

It was earlier reported that the NRD has stopped accepting mixed parentage as a race when registering births. The matter was highlighted by Majimbun who related the ordeal of a Chinese man married to a Dusun woman.

He said the man was asked to choose either Chinese or Dusun as the race of his child, prompting him to put Dusun as his child's race although the baby took his "siang" (Chinese surname).

Until then children born out of inter-marriages were listed as, for example, Sino-Kadazan, Sino Murut, Sino-Bajau, Indo-Kadazan and so forth.

According to Majimbun his discussion with Abdul Jaffear also dwelled on the Registration of Birth and Death Ordinance of Sabah (Cap 123) 1953.

He said the Home Minister had told him during a question and answer in Parliament that the said ordinance has not been made uniform with the Registration of Birth and Death Act 1957 (Act 299).

The people in Sabah are worried about this, Majimbun told Abdul Jaffear, suggesting that the NRD Sabah under his leadership be given a bigger role to handle the problem.

The Member of Parliament said the present director stood in good stead for the task and the question now is whether past mistakes can be rectified.

Saying this vital, Majimbun, a former Kota Kinabalu District Native Chief, pointed out this is because there are village heads who make dubious declarations.

How to Help Your Mixed Marriage Succeed

Here are some points for success:

• Discuss these questions honestly.
• Be respectful of each other's honesty
• Get to know and respect your spouse's faith.
• Don't let the nonessentials get in the way.
• Find a worship pattern that fits your faith and your family.
• Take the religious education of your children seriously.
• Pray together as a couple and as a family.
• Dont be afraid to ask for help. Contact your pastor, local marriage counsellors, and other couples with similar experiences.
• Don't stop talking to each other.
• Remember the bottom line is communication. Each of you has to realize that your spouse's faith is as important to him or her as yours is to you.

Explaining mixed marriage in Ireland

"Mixed marriage" strictly means a marriage contracted between a Christian and a non-Christian, but it has come to mean, particularly in Ireland, a marriage contracted between a Roman Catholic and another Christian from the Protestant denomination.
Strictly this should be called an Interchurch marriage, for it is a marriage between two Christians who belong to different denominations. We should not forget that this term would include Church of Ireland-Presbyterian marriages and other inter-Protestant marriages. While it is more correct to use the term "Interchurch marriage" for those marriages where both partners are deeply committed to their own churches the term "mixed marriage" is readily understood in Ireland.
However, it must be remembered that the original meaning of the term - a marriage between a Christian and a non-Christian - still applies, and these marriages still occur in Ireland today. Examples of Jewish-Christian and Muslim-Christian marriages are known and can pose different challenges.

so...what do you think about explaining???

be open international marriage
opinion
attitude prefer to raise issue related to personal matters is the normal life of Malaysia society is less exposed to the outside world. thinking and how they analyze a matter related to personal issues more similar to the narrow thinking and less mature about changing the world, known as the globalization process. if a hundred years ado westarn countries inhabited by people of Christian, but this pattern of change in which millions of muslims become citizens.

when migration occurs the multi-ethic society recognize each other. in everyday interaction, felling of lost identity and racial differences. thus occurred the marriages of different nations and countries. things like this is not a serious matter that could unsettle the country. in the west, many muslims from islamic countries is married to local residents. marriages between muslims and the west very well in the deveopment of islamic dakwah because every individual who wishes to marry muslims must convert to islam

EXAMPLE STORY MIXED MARRIAGE

Pathmaraja Nagalingam a business man in malaysia, say that there are over 150,0000 intercultural couples in that country since malaysia is a muslim country,in any intermarriages,the non muslimspouse must convert to islam.these interfaith marriages are the main reasons we are losing our hindus.Nagalingam says ,krishnan,a young tamil in kuala lumpur was very committed to the sanatana dharma.so the priest at the temple were surprised when he told them he was marrying a catholic girl.he explained she wasn't very religious so there would be not conflicts.in the first years of his marriage,he keep up his religious practices but gradually he stopped coming to the temple because his wife wanted him home on the weekends.when the children were born,he intended to bring them up as hindus ,but his wife objected so he gave up this idea to keep his wife happy.to this days he silently feels sad and quitly.
Suraj a hindus man married mary,a christian india girls at the time of the marriage they had agreed to bring up the children in both faiths.over time,however,mary who is with the children all day.began taking them to church and teaching them abaut christianity suraj.\,who works long haurse does not get the opportunity to give them..

BENEFIT OF MIXED MARRIAGES

• you will have chance to know and experience other culture
• can help to remove the social and culture and culture barrier that have devide people for much to long..it can help poeple to appreciate the cultures and value systems of other without feeling threatened.it will be like trying different.it will be like trying different flavors of food ans developing a taste for variety..
• one of them is they can take advantage in this special family back ground to exchange diverse of perspective.for instance ,husband or wife come occross the problem,they can suggest their family method to solve the problem,beside,many successful story show us alot of mixed marriages is interpersonal relationships expert.theytry to find a way to get together with their parents,sibling,relatives or friends,especially parents.
• in the other hand,children whoburn in this family can become genius in the future because of parents come from different race so they can speak different kind of language.as everyone know comunication play an important role at the moment because it can abbreviate the distance between each other.
• no doubt if they discover latent fortune really exist in mixed marriages.as it know to all,quite of few spouses come from different country if you are businessman,you can expand you corporation easily.can you image if you are this guys.for woman more of the woman will agree that beutiful feature because of mats come from diffrent culture so they have their own ancient of recipe to keep their beauty forever.then she can discuss the recipe to their husband mother.in the mean time,relation ship between wife and parents can be emphasies and feture can be improve for good..can tou dream now sweet it.
• furry agree mix marriage will bring happiness than badness.spouse can show understand between each other because they need more time to figure out their mate daily routine in diverse culture.in my perpective,mix marriages will be most happiness marriages in the world.

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How Mixed Couple are Helping to Heal Divisions in Our Community

The Christian must pray that these tensions may cease, and that real peace, not just an uneasy calm, may return to our country. When communities inter-marry it can lead to an increase of knowledge and understanding, for two families are inextricably linked in the children of these marriages and slowly come to lose the fear that they have of one another.There are complicated theological factors discouraging inter-marriage and in the past the Churches made it difficult to use this method of reconciliation. It is our experience that such marriages can be full of love and can make two differing people truly become "one flesh".

These marriages, by the fact that they happen at all, can be a beginning of the reconciliation so needed in our community and are increasingly recognised as such by the main Churches and some political parties.

Couples do not want to marry as a political move or to further the ecumenical movement, but wish to marry for love and to get on with their lives together.